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3-book series · by Bhupendra Ojha
Set Boundaries Without Losing People
Say no without guilt, speak without fear and keep the relationships that matter.
Start with Book 1: Protect Your Peace
How the series flows
Read it in order, one step at a time
Three books: protect your peace, speak without fear, and connect without losing yourself.
Is this series for you?
What it’s about and who it’s for
The problem
You say "Sure, I will do it" when you mean no, then feel tired and resentful without knowing why.
The promise
Say no without guilt, speak without fear and keep the relationships that matter.
What you’ll learn
- 1Why being nice becomes too expensive
- 2Why you struggle to say no
- 3How to say no without becoming cold
- 4How to build a life with healthy limits
Best for
Kind, considerate people who are quietly exhausted from always saying yes.
Not the right series if
You are in an abusive or coercive situation. Book 1 recommends a qualified professional for that.
Look inside Book 1
A taste of Protect Your Peace
None of these moments look dramatic from the outside. They are small, ordinary, easy to explain away one at a time. But added together, over months and years, they form a pattern. The pattern has a name: weak boundaries. And weak boundaries have a cost, even when nobody around you can see it.
It is worth pausing on that last point, because it is part of why this problem is so easy to overlook. A single missed boundary rarely does visible damage. Nobody sees the tiredness building behind a calm face. Nobody notices the small compromises stacking up, one on top of the other, until a person who once felt clear and grounded starts to feel like they are living someone else's life, shaped almost entirely by what other people expect of them.
From Protect Your Peace, Book 1
Read free sampleThe opening chapters as an ebook or PDF. Free with a reader account.Buy on Amazon US Buy on Amazon India
Three key ideas from Book 1
- Boundaries are not walls
A boundary is a clear, honest answer about what you will give and what you need.
- Small moments add up
One missed boundary does little harm. Years of them change who you are.
- Clarity is kind
People find it restful when your yes means yes and your no means no.
Every book in the series
All 3 books
Ebooks on Amazon US and India; the buy buttons open Amazon in a new tab. Kindle Unlimited members can read every book free. Buying the ebook directly from BR Book Store is coming soon.
Questions readers ask
Before you start
Where should I start?
Start with Book 1, Protect Your Peace. Each book builds on the one before it.
Will this make me less caring?
No. Book 1 is written to make your caring sustainable, not smaller.
Can I read some of it before buying?
Yes. The opening chapters of Protect Your Peace are free as an ebook or PDF when you create a free reader account. No card needed.
Where can I buy the books?
On Amazon US and Amazon India as Kindle ebooks. Kindle Unlimited members can read them free. Buying the ebook directly from BR Book Store is coming soon: instant delivery by email, secure Payhip checkout by card or PayPal, and no account needed. BR Book Store never sees your card details.
About the author
Bhupendra Ojha
Bhupendra Ojha writes across genres, from practical books on leadership, discipline, AI income and relationships to mystery, horror, fantasy and literary fiction. He writes to entertain, inspire and help readers see the world from new perspectives.
88 books · 18 series · On Amazon US & India
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