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3-book series · by Pushpa Ojha
The 5 Social Mistakes That Make You Forgettable
Spot the small social habits that make people forget you, and learn what to do instead.
Start with Book 1: Talking Too Much
How the series flows
Read it in order, one step at a time
Three books so far, one mistake each: talking too much, never asking and always agreeing.
Is this series for you?
What it’s about and who it’s for
You were friendly and kept things moving, yet afterwards you replay the conversation and think: I talked a lot, didn't I?
Spot the small social habits that make people forget you, and learn what to do instead.
What you’ll learn
- 1Why the more you talk, the less people remember
- 2Why we fill silences and turn conversations into our own story
- 3How to listen better without going silent
- 4The C.L.E.A.R. way to be memorable
Best for
Friendly, talkative people who want conversations to land better.
Not the right series if
You are very quiet and want to speak up more. Try Talk to Anyone.
Look inside Book 1
A taste of Talking Too Much
Think about the last time you walked away from a conversation and replayed it in your head.
Maybe you were in the car after a party. Maybe you were lying in bed after a long day of meetings. And somewhere in that replay, a small, uncomfortable thought showed up: I talked a lot, didn't I?
You might have pushed the thought away. After all, you were friendly. You were open. You kept things moving. Nobody had to sit in an awkward silence while you were there. Surely that counts for something.
From Talking Too Much, Book 1
Read free sampleThe opening chapters as an ebook or PDF. Free with a reader account.Buy on Amazon US Buy on Amazon India
Three key ideas from Book 1
- You don't have to be the loudest
Being remembered is not about how much you say.
- Say less, mean more
Choosing words carefully makes them land.
- Know when to stop
Release the moment and let it breathe.
Framework from the series
The C.L.E.A.R. Conversation
From Book 1.
- CConnect with the person, not just the topic
- LListen before preparing your answer
- EExpress something real
- AAsk, and give them room
- RRelease when you have said enough
Questions readers ask
Before you start
Where should I start?
Start with Book 1, Talking Too Much. Each book builds on the one before it.
Can I read some of it before buying?
Yes. The opening chapters of Talking Too Much are free as an ebook or PDF when you create a free reader account. No card needed.
Where can I buy the books?
On Amazon US and Amazon India as Kindle ebooks. Kindle Unlimited members can read them free. Buying the ebook directly from BR Book Store is coming soon: instant delivery by email, secure Payhip checkout by card or PayPal, and no account needed. BR Book Store never sees your card details.
About the author
Pushpa Ojha
Pushpa Ojha writes practical self-help about habits, attention, identity and personal growth. She focuses on turning broad ambitions into manageable steps readers can apply to everyday life.
40 books · 9 series · On Amazon US & India
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